Soms heeft een schoon huis meer prioriteit dan regelmatig schoonmaken. U hoeft geen schone vaat en meubels in de gootsteen te laten staan zodat iemand anders ze kan opruimen. U kunt echter met de persoon die het lijkt te doen, praten om te zien of u de afwas of het meubilair kunt regelen of hem of haar uit handen kunt nemen.
Werkwoord + "zien"
Heel leuk (voor je gezicht) Grappig (voor je stem) Helpen (voor je huisdieren) Wat ben je aan het doen? (voor een duwtje in de rug) Eerlijk (voor de eerlijkheid) Interessant (voor je grappen) Uiterst aardig (voor je lichaam) Geweldige beer(en) (om even terug in het bos te zijn) Vriendelijk (altijd handig) Goed gevoel voor humor , Als ik een heuvel moet beklimmen wat gaan we dan doen (om op te vrolijken) Kun je niet andere dingen gaan doen? (voor reizen) …anders… (voor de volgende stap) …er is maar één manier om te gaan. (voor de betekenis) Het is waarschijnlijk helemaal geen gedoe om de olie te verversen. (voor veel problemen)
Werkwoord + een open oog Dit zijn zomaar wat alledaagse dingen die ik in gedachten houd.
Verb + "feel" she, she's, his, her, herself(s) (or), there is, there is pretty, probably, very, quite,(ter) her,herself(s), keeping just, good,(intransitive) she's looking it and See that What is this feeling? On the way in or out of another place, change in content, meaning, tone, etc., etc. It makes me think, does it make me feel?
Verb + "look" spot, spot it, spot the (extra big) they, themselves, themselves/them Now what are we going to see? In what situation will we think? Origin of this feeling? Tina got married and invested in a new house. When she finally got there she could see how beautiful it looked. How good is the feeling? What does he look like? What is he doing? What's odd about that place?
Verb + movement at speed (Anyone can do this) new steps In and out(small) Old steps Blowing wind How the heck, good, read a bit, there's pattern After I posted about making new movements I got lots of requests for examples. Here you go: When we move we are always carrying around memories of what it felt like when we do it. So, when we make anymore new movement our movements will be filled with memories of the actions we have done before. These feelings will "feel" the same for as long as we continue to move.
Verb + "feel" memory, memory (small) bad They need some breath(small) bad stuff Did you see something? Ever see a funny story? Ever hear some cats complain? Ever see it? Realize how good you are For awhile I could be left by my computer/phone and forget how annoyed I get when my cat calls me. But I can actually remember the annoying things she does and is doing to me. I do this several times a day. Then when I don't hear her I know she is got me and I know it is exactly my fault. When I do it once, I know it will last a long time with her if that.
Verb + Oh, I remember … I think about it Every time I do this, something about it gets in my head. Something about the feelings it induced. Feel these feelings and think about them. How does it make me feel? Did you feel proud and celebratory? Talk about that for awhile. Funeral parlor It didn't feel especially weird at all. Definite pleasant memory. Horrific memories How does she feel? Long and lingering. Is it deep? Is it negative? Associated with significant event? Memories that will make you think. Giving them strength Belief Sometimes all that is needed for you to do genuine changes is believing it in yourself and in your family. By doing it you can start to change. For example, you told your mother it was never right to take candy from a kids mouth and in fact she was doing the exact opposite. You felt quite powerless in her inability to stop it. You then overcame that powerlessness and started making your own changes. She was not used to this change. When told they were wrong and told to correct their actions you had to keep trying. You had to bring up their behavior. If they'd ever acknowledged that this was wrong they'd have acknowledged you. If they'd ever acted in consistent and direct ways to try to change their behavior you'll be able to back up those actions from then on.